Dad's love The Firm

How to make a child understand the purpose of the heart of a strict father?The method in this case: Pour your heart and love his father into real action, so it can make the child moved.In terms of educating children, my husband and I often had different ideas, so it is easy to quarrel, in the end after going through discussions and negotiations, he decided to choose a role as an evil figure, and myself played a good figure.Because of busy work, then in terms of the way he loved children, is to buy something or bring their children to eat at the restaurant elite, and satisfy the wishes of children will matter.While I prefer to spend time talking with them, accompany them to school, and reading books together.Because of differences in the nature, my husband is very easily ignited emotions, in terms of giving children lessons, he was very impatient, when children make mistakes, the reaction often makes me feel as an overreaction, and easy to frighten children.

Therefore, I could feel that the relationship between my husband with children are very tense, sometimes when the feelings are good, and was about to thrash out the situation in school, kids do not want to tell just the opposite.This year our daughter has graduated from primary school, on the firmness of her husband and our daughter's approval, decided to attend private school.Early in July I accompanied him to a private school in town to attend the draw open Neihu school. Fortunately, our daughter was accepted into the school, her husband and daughter we were happy not playing.Next thing I was somewhat worried, during the summer holidays, the school held a summer vacation lesson, because the school does not provide a means of shuttle sons, our daughters are forced to ride public transportation to school, this is for him, is something the same thing entirely new.I remember when the first day with her taking public transportation, I accompanied him to wait for the vehicle, after dropping until he climbed into the vehicle, I then went to work on the MRT (subway).Not unexpectedly in the middle of the road to my office got a call in the husband, who said he was at one bus stop near the school our daughter.Because the dismissal was still adrift far enough away from school, my husband is afraid our daughter will be late, so he waited there in order to deliver the daughter to the school gates.Irresistibly I laugh at himself, he usually always blame me too indulgent children, would not he just the same. Even early in the morning waiting for our daughter at the bus stop, getting ready to give assistance to our daughter if necessary.He then said this instead of indulging, this is a concern, because today is the first day our daughter take the bus to school. So get ready, make sure that everything is no problem.Finally, the day the two of them, father and daughter did not meet, because our daughter off at the next stop, the bus stop where my husband was waiting.After that incident, I told how his father is very concerned and love him, and asked that our daughter always knew it by heart.A week later, the school hours be accelerated, should arrive at school half an hour earlier, my husband insisted he is responsible for delivering our daughter to school. This is not an easy thing for him who has been accustomed to staying up late and sleeping late.Listening to our daughter that the father during the journey continues to remind him that life in junior high is totally different from when it was in grade school. Should set targets which would target high school to attend school, and then develop a plan to achieve these goals, as well as how to use the time to learn, and ways of effective learning, and others.I used to always say to my friends, my husband's attention to the children always like a "mean heart hug the mountain, what was to hand power", which says far more than action.However, after seeing lately getting up early in order to deliver his daughter to school, and after work, he always asked about the princess lessons at school, now I have to change my assessment of him. (Beth Temma / The Epoch Times / lie)